14 Crazy Ways To Spend Valentine’s Day Alone If You’re Single

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You’re only just single, and it’s not a crime

I’m sorry to say, but it’s the year 2024, and Mr. February has once again infected all of us with his unrepentant, self absorbed, love-infested theatrics. And what this means for everyone whether in a relationship or not, absorbed in self love, or trapped in an unreciprocated love, is the momentary reminder to brace up against the typical drama that comes with valentine’s day.

February (especially 14th) in much more simpler terms, means everyone you know might be seen walking about infected by a timely unseen love bug. It is the month of a love pandemic! Often characterized with stray symptoms of the infected being inundated with red hearts and white flowers, nearly-impressive script lines, and trumpets serenades of unending declarations of everlasting love, on display everywhere.

Special thanks to the influx of excitement on the media, every ad on our favorite social media platforms are presently either on a 14% or more discount off gift items and it looks like everyone is pledging their undying allegiance to this thing called love.

The upside to this? Well, there are boxes of chocolates and giggling girls, love tips and hints everywhere. However my position on things still remains:

14 Crazy Ways To Spend Valentine's Day Alone If You're Single

Ok honestly, I don’t hate Valentine’s Day like this 15 people who think that valentine’s day should be cancelled, but here’s where I’m going with my rant.

Whether single or not, you might want to agree with me that Valentine’s Day is an annoying and unneeded commercial celebration for some people. However, for those who are single and unhappy about it, it can be a particularly unbearable day in the events of their yearly calendars, and for those who are still reeling from the loss of a relationship like these people who have had their fair share of great and sore valentine experiences

I know that it can be like pouring alcohol into a fresh wound. However, It doesn’t have to be that way, and I’m here to remind you that valentine’s day is not meant to be a mourning day—especially for singles.

In fact, Valentine’s Day can be a terrific excuse to do something fun alone, whether it’s a romantic dinner or some self-care. You can mark a holiday that honours love by enjoying self-love instead if you don’t have a significant other to cuddle up next to. Just stop sulking already and think about it. This is pure wisdom! You can’t get it in the market for free.

Even while February 14 may seem like a day reserved for couples, there are several reasons why spending Valentine’s Day alone is beneficial. For starters, you may celebrate the holiday anyway you choose, which means you won’t have to stress about finding the perfect present or spending a fortune on the ideal date. Instead, you can do whatever it is that makes you joyful, whether it’s learning a new skill or laughing at something.

So while there may be no “bae” or “boo” love to celebrate, self love, parent’s love, or best friend’s love, other forms of love are still permissible to be celebrated on Feb 14. Love is nothing but a broad mindset, and According to Dr. Kevin Gilliland, Psy.D., licensed clinical psychologist and the Executive Director of Innovation 360l, “A romantic partner is just one type of love, and it takes more than one type for us to grow into the fullness of who we are. The research tells us that a variety of loving, meaningful relationships are good for our mental and physical health. It’s part of our DNA.”

So being single is inevitably not the end of the world as we know it. If you’re single on valentine’s day, I’ve compiled a list of 8+ fun and uplifting activities to do.

Let’s get started all ye single-pringles!!!!!

8 Fun Things To Do On Valentine’s Day 2024 If You’re Single

8 Fun Things To Do On Valentine's Day 2024 When You're Single

1. Binge-Watch a New Series or Go To The Movies

It is arguable that going to the movies alone is preferable to going with others. Get a ticket to a new movie you’ve been wanting to see, some expensive popcorn and chocolates, and go on a date with yourself. If you would prefer to spend the day’s event locked up inside, you could try several multiple streaming platforms like Netflix, Amazon Prime, etc. Remember that great series you’ve heard so much about but have not seen yet? Now’s the time to enjoy the romantic holiday and binge on something interesting. You could start and finish on a short series as well. If you’re stuck and can’t seem to find the right type of holiday movies to watch, you can check out this movie list recommendation for singles on Valentine’s Day.

Going to the movies by yourself affords you the pleasure of seeing any movie you want without having to cater to someone else’s preferences. You get to eat all of the popcorn without having to share, and immerse yourself in the film without being distracted. It’s that cool! Once you’ve seen a movie alone, you’ll never want to go with anyone else again.

2. Go On a Solo Dinner

When was the last time you reminded yourself of how freaking hot you are? When was the last time you made yourself happy by treating you to a nice dinner? The answer is probably boring. I guessed just right.

You don’t have to be in a relationship to enjoy Valentine’s Day; instead, you can follow your own quirks and devote the day to loving yourself. because who says you need a partner to have fun?. All by yourself, you can enjoy the most romantic and wonderful day. Go to your favorite Restaurant and order your best go-to meal. Reminisce on all the crazy things that make you you, and have a good quiet laugh time with yourself.

On the brighter side, while you may look a bit delusional to onlookers smiling and sighing away at yourself, you are on the winning side because you get to enjoy not having to share your meal, not having to listen to someone personal movie review, and being able to do exactly what you want, whenever you want. This valentine, take care of yourself and romance yourself to death. Make a date with yourself.

3. Remind Yourself of Your New Year Goals

Valentine’s Day falls on the 14th of February, which means it’s still quite early in the new year. So, if you’re looking for something to do with all that single-minded intensity, you can totally glance at the list of New Year’s resolutions you’ve probably already forgotten about. February is still a fresh start into the new year,and can still be another month to remind yourself to crush your goals. whether you were hoping to get in better shape? read more, make more money, or learn a new skill or hobby. Valentine can serve as a great excuse to reflect on your personal growth.

4. Cook a Meal For Yourself

What’s better than going all out on a solo dinner for Valentine’s day? Cooking a meal for yourself! Yes, you heard that right. Cooking is another way of immersion into self love.

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Preparing your favorite recipe to suit your taste buds is something you can do on Valentine’s day. Trying a new recipe and being explorative in the kitchen can also be a great way to have fun on Valentine’s day. Make a feast for yourself with all of your favorite foods. Enjoy not having to worry about what others want to eat while indulging in a delectable food bath! Just ensure that you don’t end up like this guy!

5. Host a Singles Only Party

Are you a party person who loves to shake up the entire block and maybe turn your apartment into a mini club groove, then hosting a singles only party for valentine should be your best bet!

Honestly, Valentine’s day is a good excuse to shake things up a little. Your Valentine’s Day celebrations should be joyful and fun for everyone, regardless of their relationship status.The benefit of organizing a Valentine’s Day event for singles is that even folks who are and aren’t dating will want to go! And it might mean more opportunities for you to plan events! Singles parties, let’s face it, are usually more relaxed because there’s less need to prepare a wonderfully romantic day. Everyone’s always free and ready to mingle, and bustle while having fun.

Spending time with friends is a wonderful non-romantic way to celebrate love. Invite all of your favorite single friends over for a delicious supper, a glass of wine, and a toast to your freedom.

6. Write a Love Letter To Yourself

Whatever your feelings regarding Valentine’s Day, the 14th of February is an excellent time to reflect on your relationship with the most important person in your life: yourself.

Choose a time of day when you will be alone and unaffected. Put on some relaxing music, burn a candle, or do whatever else that makes you feel at ease. Visualize yourself at various points in your life, connect with any painful or happy emotions, and write them down as they arise. Avoid manipulating, editing, or overthinking it.The goal is to write about yourself with as much love, compassion, and empathy as you can summon; as if you were speaking with your absolute favorite human being on the earth, who has gone through similar situations to you.

7. Try Something New

Have you always wanted to try a new brand of fashion accessories, learn a new skill, hone a new hobby, learn to paint, make pottery, draw or learn archery, or whatever else. February 14 might just be a good excuse to return to your varying unrelenting interests.

8. Do Something Nice For Someone

Love can be expressed and felt in many ways.You’d be surprised at how fulfilled you might get by lighting up someone’s face and making someone happy. Write a lovely note, bake some cookies for them, or even putting a call through can be an expressive way to display love.