Afrogist: 22 People Give Reasons As To Why They’re Still Single
We’re almost out of January and in the month of love, February. While some are planning and saving to surprise their special someone on Valentine’s Day, others are busy downloading the movies they plan to binge-watch that day… lol.
Nevertheless, we want to know: Why are you still single? Is there any hope for a relationship with you in the nearest future?? Is it by your designs or forces beyond your control??? Well hop on, and enjoy. Let’s hear 20 persons justify why they’re still single. Who knows? You might find a like-minded soul from here.
“Lol, I’m single because most Nigerian girls are expensive. Maybe if I leave Nigeria, I’d find a soulmate.”
Gideon (M)
Lagos, Nigeria
“Seems like I only attract people’s girlfriends or those not ready for relationships.”
Parashoot (M)
Benin, Nigeria
“Because I am single 🙃”
The 11th (F)
Nigeria
“Because girls I have been meeting, that I like, don’t like me for a relationship.”
Eq (M)
Benin
“Because guys nowadays are deceitful and they are destiny destroyers.”
Ynovve(F)
Edo State
“People date for the wrongest of reason; sex partner, money giver, going out partner and I don’t want to be doing all that. I just want to chill and be taken care of.
Guys need care too”
the General (M)
Lagos
“To be honest, I’m not sure, maybe cause I haven’t found the right person.”
CAS (M)
Benin City
“Nothing 🤪”
Meyi (F)
Abuja
“Making good preparations.”
Lollipop
Nigeria
“Village people oooo😭😭😭😭”
Don (M)
Nigeria
“I have trust issues. So far, I’ve not been able to see a guy that’ll make me forget everything and just follow and believe in him. Plus, due to the fact I’m a hopeless romantic, I think my standards are too high and a lil unrealistic 😓”
Foodie🌭 (F)
Lagos
“Because we choose to be single 😎”
Kudurat (F)
Nigeria
“Waiting for my bestfriend to introduce me to her boyfriend’s friends…
I am following her to all the hangout spots, she knows how to pick good guys.”
Omotoyosi (F)
Oyo
“God said it’s good to be 🚶♀️🚶♀️”
Ode (F)
Lagos
“Well, my girlfriend left sometime around March [2020 was definitely jinxed] [you don’t want to know the reasons 😂] since then, [due to Covid’19] I’ve been staying indoors mostly. And towards the end of 2020, I started going out with friends. Got entangled in some part-time relationship, nothing serious, just vibes and brethren, being single is not death.”
SoD (M)
Ibadan
“Money nor dey na”
gorge (M)
Nigeria
“I’m single because my mental health is my priority and I don’t need any man to tamper with it.
After coming out of a terrible heartbreak/break up, omo I need a break from relationship palava
Trust me, I’m enjoying my singleness 😁😁😁”
Good girl (F)
UK
“Well, if you must know, I’m single cause I’m too worried that I would break someone’s heart. And then there’s money too 😸😸”
Joro (M)
Abuja
“To be honest, I don’t feel all these lovestuff. The only time for the past 3years I loved, the lady just ended the whole stuff like a joke. No quarrel. No problem. She just said she isn’t feeling it anymore. Lol, oh my…who does that? To sum it up, I’m taking my time.”
Fame (M)
Nigeria
“At this point…omoooo…I think I’m cursed o 😒”
Babe (F)
NY
“Right now I’m not interested in a relationship. I like being single.”
Abbey (F)
Ebonyi
“Dem don break my heart tire. I can’t deal.”
Shola (F)
Lagos
Let me just point out: being single is not a crime. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise or make you feel there’s something wrong with you. You’re not a lesser man or lady for wanting to take your time before getting into a relationship.
Also, you’re not a prude or naive for deciding to wait for the right one. In a world where unrealistic standards are set and “misfits” are maligned, always dare to be you. Well, there you have it. Why are YOU still single?
See you next week❤️❤️❤️ (Hint: What is your ideal spec in a man/woman)
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