19 Anonymous Romantic Valentine Messages Shared on Afrolady

Love is a beautiful yet complex emotion, often hard to express with words. Sometimes, people struggle to say what they truly feel, whether it’s a secret admiration, a heartfelt confession, or a simple “I love you.” That’s why Afrolady created a space for people to share their romantic Valentine messages anonymously, allowing them to speak from the heart without fear or hesitation.
This year, we received some of the most touching, sweet, and even surprising messages. From secret admirers to long-time lovers, these anonymous confessions remind us of the power of love in its many forms. Ready to read 19 heartfelt and romantic messages shared through Afrolady? Let’s dive in!
“Thank you for choosing me, can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.
I love you Bonetalks!”
Anuks (F)
Nigeria
“Valentine Again! 🤦🏽♀️
Yet another Valentine, without somebody’s son finding me 😂.
Well, while I’ve always imagined the most amazing Valentine’s Day; with you,in my head 🥰and imagined you fitting perfectly into that role of my “gentleman”👩🏾❤️💋👨🏾.
I finally got to realize that no Valentine’s Day or lover’s day (as they call it), will beat the one I have with myself everyday. 👩🏾❤️💋👩🏾
So yes! I found me, and I knew that no one could love me better than I do and will do💞. And that I could be a better lover to you if I could love myself regardless of my flaws🥺.
For that, every day is my Valentine, as no love could measure up the love I have with and for myself📌and how I’m able to express that to you.
I hope you realize that too; sooner or later! But till then, know that I don’t love you more than myself, I love you as much as I love myself.
Happy Valentine’s Day, again!”
COY (F)
Nigeria
“I want to be with you till forever.”
Shally (M)
Ilorin, Nigeria
“My love, every moment with you feels like a beautiful dream come true. You bring light into my life in ways words can’t capture. I’m so grateful for you, for the love you give, and for making my world so much brighter. You are truly the best part of my life. 💖💝”
Shudi (M)
Nigeria
“You’re beautiful and cool!”
Paul Junior (M)
Nigeria
“You’re my one and only forever and ever! Loving you is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Life isn’t always wonderful but you are! There are only two times that I want to be with you: Now and Forever.”
IDRIS MUHAMMED DANLAMI (M)
Nigeria
“I know my fairytale has come through because I have you and we’re growing old together with a love that’s forever young.”
Uredo (F)
Nigeria
“To my lover,
I want to share every night of my life with you forever.
Will you be my Valentine?😍”
Flakky(F)
Lokoja, Nigeria
“You’re beautiful, you’re kind and I like you more than I should.”
Godstime Oguori (M)
Benin-city, Nigeria
“Hey valentine, wherever you are find me before next year’s valentine cos e be like this year valentine no sure😏”
Gift (F)
Ota, Nigeria
“I love you!”
Banju (M)
Lagos, Nigeria
“Hiiii my love,
You asked and I said yes (it’s not like I had a choice. lol)
To think that I’ve not even known you for up to 6 months just goes to show how very destined this friendship is.
These past months have been a time of beautiful, progressive love, and mutual respect for each other. I might not throw in “I love you” after calls or be physically protective of you (marking territory) like you do, but I pray you know and feel just how much you mean to me
I am committed to seeing that you grow spiritually, financially, mentally, and even in knowledge. I can’t do too much for your physical growth unfortunately, we will have to take that to the lord.
Thank you for loving me the way that you do, and for the first time since I’ve known you I want to say that I love you very much and for as long as the lord permits, I’ll be here doing life with you, whether you are my PA and manager (like you like to call yourself) or sister or friend, just know that I go nowhere.
Happy Valentine baybeeee
And I’m definitely looking forward to the Sharwarma date🤭”
Empress (F)
Nigeria
“Meet me where the sun sets, and our love begins. You + Me= Forever. See you soon, My Love.”
HarvBam
Ibadan, Nigeria
“Roses are Red, violets are blue.
You’re my sunshine, my heart’s desire through and through.
Xoxo”
Jessica (F)
Lagos, Nigeria
“Moments shared with you are etched in my memory and no matter how much I want to erase them, they stay put with a mind of their own.
Ever heard of someone walking into your heart, breaking the gate and building their mansion on it.
That’s what you did with me. I love you forever. Happy Valentine.”
Always Kinging (F)
Lagos
“I don’t have one (lol)”
Braham
Nigeria
“I love you, I absolutely adore you. You brought light into my life at a time where it seemed like it would never be possible. Funny part was, I wasn’t even expecting you, but you came, and literally swept me off my feet lol. I thank God every day you’re in my life, even though sometimes I want to kill you, I suppose that’s what love is. There are joys, sadness, celebrations, fights, and, there is love. I love you, now and always.”
Maya (F)
Ghana
“Even though we may not be together, you will and always be my first love. This valentine, I hope you’re as happy with your wife as I am with my husband. The good times we shared will always be a favorite memory I run back to when I’m sad.”
Khaleesi (F)
Nigeria
“You make me dream of velvet sheets, cool music, moonlight dinners, and torn clothes 🫣 🤭🤭 Better come o before I go and rape somebody’s son.”
Violet (F)
Nigeria
Love doesn’t always need a name or a face to be real. These anonymous Valentine messages prove that love can be loud or silent, but its impact remains the same. Whether it’s a whispered secret, an unspoken longing, or a bold declaration, every message carries meaning and emotion.
As we celebrate Valentine’s Day, let these heartfelt words remind you that love is everywhere, sometimes in unexpected places. If you have a message to share, don’t hold back. Who knows? Your words might just make someone’s day a little brighter. ❤️
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